FATE / PREDESTINATION IS WITHIN ALLAH'S JURISDICTION.

Not everything we want can be achieved, not all the ending as what we planned because eventual the destiny and will of ALLAH is going to happen whether we like it or not. Notwithstanding, every human being are subjected to the destiny created by Allah and unconditionally to the destiny which has been planned for us. No one can ever change that fate / predestination.

My ears still echoing a phrase "MAN PROPOSES, ALLAH DISPOSES" that life is a series of efforts and the end of the effort, ALLAH will solve and determine it, not us. Human just endeavor which begins with an intention, whether good intention or bad intention. Yet, there are two possibilities will occur at the end of the endeavor, whereby the results will happen whether matching according to our plan or opposite. This is a power and miracle of ALLAH without limit of time and space.

Undeniably, everyone has the right to be disappointed when the desire and ambition is not reached. Frustration is part of Gharizatul Baqa (the instincts of self-defense) that has been created by Allah to every human being. Obviously, disappointment and frustration is part of human nature which is the interlude between the joy and pleasure that God has given us. Although sometimes we are not able to understand the destiny.....Yeahh, when I was no longer able to understand the destiny, what should I do? Self-reflection while look around and see the life surroundings me....

Look at how Allah divide happiness among his servants......There are perfectly healthy, but their heart was in pain and suffered. Some of them look good and perfect in life with good food, expensive clothes, beautiful, luxurious and seems they are happy but the fact are hidden of suffering, tears and rot. Not all physical appearance as what we seen are beautiful. They are just acting to obscure our view...... On the other hand, more people are happy with something simple and not luxury in seen in our eyes... Small but meaningful. Slight but sufficient.... SUBHANALLAH. They are fighting for live but his inner honest, from his face ripples showing they are pleased with divine decree and destiny. ALLAHUROBBI.

Life is black and white, complicated, stumble and sometimes we have to enter the dark and creepy hallway alone. All done because for the sake of ALLAH and our love to HIM. Indeed, ALLAH never let us go through and do all this alone. He promise to be with those who are patient and ALLAH definitely will fulfill his promise. ALLAH never break a promise, so DO NOT prejudice / suspicion to ALLAH that incident, injury or disaster occurred because ALLAH does not love us....NAUZUBILLAHIMINDZALIK

Believe that, every good and positif thinking towards ALLAH, will transform disaster into a boon, sadness into joy because ALLAH is following his prejudice servant. Test, loss, injuries that occur will be changed in a moment into a pole of life that make us more wiser and calm.... INSYAALLAH.

ALLAH knows the best. The more we willing and sincere without doubts over HIS destiny and faith, ALLAH will love us more and more. Achieve ALLAH's love through the sincerity and purity...Remember that we are always within Allah's jurisdiction. Without Allah's permission and his will to happen, it's will never happen.

4 MEN WILL BE PULLED BY WOMEN INTO HELL | NAUZUBILLAH |

Who are they? The men are those who do not give rights to women and not maintaining that trust. They are:

1. THE FATHER who does not care and ignores his daughters in this world though apparently he really loves her children with overflow of wealth and money as well. But then he did not give or teach her religious purposes like prayer, reading and understand quran etc. He let her daughter do not cover awrah. Not enough just provide his daughter with world's luxury only. Hence, he will dragged by his daughter into hell.

(p / s; O men who are holds a title as father/dad, how the circumstances of your daughter now? Are you teaching him to salat (pray), cover awrah? .. knowledge of Islam? ..  If one of it not done, get ready and willing to be the occupiers of hell.)

2. THE HUSBAND WHO Does not care about his wife's behavior. Mix freely in office, dress up to alluring not for husband but to the view of men are not mahram and let her not cover awrah. When husbands stay silent though he's a pious, never perforated and never delaying salat, then he will also be drawn by his wife together into hell.

(P / s; O men who are holds title as husband, how the circumstances of your beloved wife now?. Where is she? How's her character and her behavior? If you do not take care of her by following the Shari'ah provisions, then accept the facts that you will be live with her in the 'garden' of hell.)

3. BROTHER who does not care and ignores his sisters. When father has passed away, the responsibility of maintaining the dignity of daughters in the family fell onto the shoulders of elder and younger brother of the family. If they are concerned only to his family but leave and regardless his sisters swerve from Islam, just wait he will pulled by his sister into hell in the hereafter.

(P / s; O man who has sisters, do not just keep your deeds, don't think that you can escape... You will also be responsible for them in the hereafter, if you let her mired with sins and immoral ... and do not cover her awrah.)

4. THE SON who does not advise his mother about the unlawful conduct on the side of Islam. When mother make sins such as gossiping, cursing, slandering, vilify and so on ... then the child will be questioned in hereafter.

(p / s; O son .... pity and love your mother .... exhort and advise your mother if she mistaken or forgotten .... because mother is also normal human ... never escape from sinning ... save her from become occupiers of hell ... if not, get ready to accompany in hell.)